About us

Founded in 2018 by a group of relationship specialists and technology enthusiasts, our platform grew from a straightforward belief: dating should focus on real connection, not endless swiping.

Andrew Porter

Director

We saw that most apps prioritize surface-level details, so we created a space where:

  • Conversations begin with meaning, not appearance.

  • Matches are driven by shared values, not just location.

  • People feel safe showing up as their authentic selves.

Andrew Porter
Director

Our team

Ann Breadshow
Ann Breadshow
Lead Developer
Simon Watkinson
Simon Watkinson
Security Engineer
Lora Kayne
Lora Kayne
Data Scientist
Anthony Roberts
Anthony Roberts
CPO (Chief Product Officer)

Encouraging and inspiring

In a world that can feel increasingly distant, everyone deserves to meet someone who truly understands them. We believe meaningful relationships don’t start with a quick look—they start with an honest conversation. That’s why our platform is built to help those moments happen naturally, securely, and in a way that gives real connection room to grow.

We can’t promise love overnight, but we can offer the tools that make it easier to share who you are and recognize someone who genuinely fits. Rich profiles, considerate prompts, and intelligent matching work together to bridge the gap between “hi” and “I’m grateful you’re here.”

Professional & Deep-Focused

Our platform connects people who want lasting relationships rooted in shared values and real understanding. Instead of relying on superficial swiping, we provide a more deliberate matching experience: rather than an endless stream of random profiles, you receive a curated set of potential partners where there’s meaningful overlap.

Our matching system evaluates interests, life goals and communication preferences to surface compatible connections. Profiles feature detailed prompts that go well beyond photos, helping you learn what truly matters to someone. Profile verification and secure messaging support a safe, respectful space to get to know each other.

Question and answer

Your Profile and Matches

What photo should I use for my profile?
Choose clear, recent photos that show you—just you. Avoid group shots, sunglasses, or heavy filters. A warm smile and eye contact signal openness and sincerity, which matter deeply in a community built for marriage-minded singles.

What should I write in my bio?
Be honest and intentional. Share your values, life goals, faith (if important to you), and what you’re looking for in a lifelong partner. This isn’t the place for jokes or vagueness—clarity attracts the right match.

How do matches work on Only For Marriage?
A match is formed only when two people express mutual interest. This ensures every conversation begins with shared seriousness about building a future together—not just passing time.

How Only For Marriage Works

Is Only For Marriage free?

No, Only For Marriage is a premium, subscription-based platform. We intentionally require a paid membership to ensure every member is genuinely committed to finding a spouse, not just browsing. This creates a focused, respectful, and high-intent environment.

How does the platform work?
We connect you with marriage-minded individuals based on your stated preferences: age, location, values, faith, family goals, and more. No games. No flaking. Just real people ready for real commitment.

Are profiles verified?
Yes! We require verification for all active members.

Can I use Only For Marriage on desktop?
Absolutely. Visit ofm.dating from any browser to access your full profile and matches.

Premium Membership

 

What VIP subscription plans do you offer and how much do they cost?

A: We offer four VIP subscription tiers:

• VIP 1 – $1 per month

• VIP 3 – $3 per month

• VIP 5 – $5 per month

• VIP 10 – $10 per month

All plans include unlimited profile views and extended search. Higher tiers provide increased daily limits for chats, likes, feed posts, and profile boosts, with VIP 10 offering unlimited access to all these features.

What are the daily limits for creating chats and sending likes on each VIP plan?

A: Daily limits vary by tier:

• VIP 1: 3 chats and 3 likes per day

• VIP 3: 10 chats and 10 likes per day

• VIP 5: 20 chats and 20 likes per day

• VIP 10: Unlimited chats and likes

Upgrading to a higher tier gives you more opportunities to connect with other users each day.

Does any VIP plan include "Invisible Mode" to browse profiles privately?

A: No. Invisible Mode is not currently available with any of our VIP subscription tiers (VIP 1, VIP 3, VIP 5, or VIP 10). All profile views are visible to other users regardless of your subscription level.

What exclusive benefits does the VIP 10 plan provide compared to lower tiers?

A: VIP 10 ($10/month) is our premium plan and includes unlimited daily usage for:

• Creating new chats

• Sending likes

• Adding posts to your feed

• Boosting your profile

Lower tiers (VIP 1/3/5) have daily caps on these features, while VIP 10 removes all restrictions for maximum engagement.

Are profile views and extended search really unlimited on all VIP plans?

 

All About Love & Marriage

Can I find love - and marriage - here?
Yes. Only For Marriage exists for one reason: to help ready-to-commit singles find their life partner. Thousands have met their spouses here. Your story could be next.

Will you feature my success story?
We’d be honored! 

Is this just another dating app?
No. We’re a values-driven community for those who believe marriage is the goal—not a maybe, not a someday, but a now. If you’re done with casual dating, you’re home.

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